Sex is like a Bike.....You never forget how to RIDE!
So I’m slowly getting back into the swing of things with escorting again. NO, I’m not returning, but I have decided to make provisions for those who are generous and make it worth my while.
NO more $100 sessions or afternoon quickies will be available for ANYONE! Fridays are the only days that I’m available and appointments must be booked at least 24 hours in advance.
-NO more last minute appointments.
-NO more 15 minute requests
-NO more discounts
(But in Hooker News)
I’ve recently had the pleasure of spending an entire Friday afternoon with a gentleman who is not only generous and kind, but he has a nice dick! He also has a British accent which made my pussy as wet as getting money, cards, and gifts. It’s been a little over a year since I saw him last, so catching up on life and sex work stuff made our time together very delightful. Just as I had remembered him last encounter, he had the most ferocious sexual appetite. As I got on my knees so he could fuck me from behind, he came in a matter of minutes, which was to be expected since It had been 7 Months since I had sex last. But it was like riding a bike…You never forget how to fuck!!
After our great but short fuck session, we lay across my bed, listened to Jazz and finished the two bottles of St. James he bought me. When I finally opened the envelope containing my donation, I saw he added an extra $100 and a $20 gift card to Longhorn Steak House!
NOW that’s the shit I Love about this life!
Thank you D!!!!!!!!
Mugshot Photo Fiasco.....
I guess an explanation should be given on the fiasco of my last post.
My initial reaction was to just say “Fuck it” and move on, but I go SO many personal messages yesterday from readers that I feel that I needed to come here and apologize and EXPLAIN the motive behind the infamous mugshot photo.
As I've stated numerous times in the comments, the photo is a random mugshot from the website http://bestmugshotever.com which host the mugshots of famous celebrities, celebrities from the past, crazy mugshot photos, funny mugshot photos, and mugshots of regular everyday criminals.
The mugshot that I posted was of a transsexual named Joshua Bular who was arrested on Drug related charges, but he happens to also be a prostitute (As stated on the site).
I posted the photo because I thought his eyebrows looked funny. I even said that in the comments. I never uttered a negative word about this man though.
But I guess what bothered me the most was that as long as I been blogging here and the mostly positive content, that you ladies believe I would actually put a provider in our community on blast.
Maybe if I posted this mugshot instead, the reaction wouldn’t have been so negative.
Sex Work and the Laws of Attraction.
I was given an interesting movie about the Laws of Attraction called "The Secret". A friend of mine gave this movie some time ago and I decided to watch it for the first time Sunday morning. Although I'm quite impressed by the premise of the movie, I have to say that everything discussed in this film was something that I already knew. I firmly believe that whatever energy you put out into universe, is the same exact energy that you will receive. So, if your whole motive is to cause harm, or to speak negatively of someone, you will get the same in return. It's guaranteed and proven.
This is more so prevalent in the world of sex work and the adult industry. I see so many women entering the business with this over paranoia of being harmed or mistreated. Now this is not to say that sex workers shouldn't be careful, or not hold a level of discernment for the men that they see, I just feel that we women create our own experiences though what we feel and think about men, our clients, and our sessions with them. I hear so many women getting into this business for the quick buck, or to make a quick dollar to pay a bill, and not realizing that taking the time to cultivate a positive business approach that could make them Happier and freer sex workers.
We've been taught by society that prostitution is repugnant, and that those that participate in it are social outcasts and sexual deviants, which in actuality is the complete opposite of the truth. This is one of the main reasons why most sex workers don't view themselves as businesswomen. This is the reason why we don't make any money and oftentimes have shitty experiences. It's the negativity that surrounds the business.... the "idea" of what a prostitute is!
Sadly enough, it will probably always be this way because the negative views will always prevail. Sex will always have this air of seediness and nastiness. I mean, some men don't even ask their wives for blow jobs or anal sex because of the seedy reputation of these particular acts, but they expect it from us. Until we can come to grips with positive sexual practices, then most of us will always view this industry as being for the disgusting and lowlifes of society!
*Prostitute Mugshot of the week*
Happy Belated Burfday to me....
My Birthday was last Thursday and I'm kind of disappointed that more clients didn't call and wish me a Happy Birthday since so many of them claim to feel so close to me, and love me so much! I actually only got Birthday wishes from my one clients M, who I adore! THANK YOU M!
I'm going to start rewarding my more considerate clients as an incentive to treating me a little better. Don't get me wrong; I'm treated extremely well by most men, but they start to take advantage of my kindness after while. I think they become so accustomed to being treated so well by me, that they forget that I'm offering a service and not some free affair! Nothing is free with me, not even an emotional or sexual affair! What will I gain out of helping a man escape him marital realities without being compensated? NOTHING! Doing that dumb shit in the past and getting hurt has taught me well.
*Experience is a GREAT teacher*
I seriously don't think that my clients realize how emotionally and physically draining it is trying to give the emotional and sexual attention that they “claim” to lack at home! Just imagine having to do this 3 and 4 times a day! Now keep in mind that I enjoy what I do immensely, but if I may be honest, majority of the joy is the financial rewards I receive. I believe that if most clients fully accept the fact that the major benefits to this service is the money, then none of us will ever feel cheated. To me it's just common sense, but for some it's a bit more complicated.
Take my regular client K for instance. He sees me faithfully every week, and because he's such a faithful client, I give him a pretty hefty discount. Well, K has started to do everything that annoys me, such as asking for bigger discounts and eating my time. I finally had to put the fiasco to an end because seeing him became an annoying chore that made me feel cheated in the end. When I finally confronted him about his ways, his reply was: "Oh I thought we had more than a client/hooker relationship"! Um, why would I have that with a married man? What would I gain out of helping you have an affair without being paid? Men need to ask themselves these questions when they feel the need to take advantage of me. It's just not worth loosing that good client/provider relationship! We should always try and stay in each other's good graces, instead of each other's Shit List! Hookers have needs too you know!