New Blog Photos and tantra thoughts
If you have not looked at my blog lately, I finally have new photos up, located on my website blog, in three different postings, not here. The photos haven’t made it to my website, and most probably never will, but I know everyone is tired of looking at the same old ones.
I have always tried to be a different provider and not sale my services on my looks. Guys always say, “Liz, you sale yourself short, you are a beautiful woman”. I’d rather a client be pleasantly surprised than disappointed with my looks.
I also compile additional articles about tantra, relationships and silly stuff.
My service is about MAKING A CONNECTION, providing a memorable session and teaching the old dog new tricks. hehe. In seriousness, I only teach when you are willing to learn something new. For many of my clients, what I offer is life changing! I encourage anyone who is interested in more than just “getting off” and who wants more meaningful, sacred sex to go see a seasoned Tantra provider! Once you experience a tantric orgasm, you’ll discover your normal way of making love and releasing is just small potatoes! With the habit of building up and discharging energy the more subtle layers of the sexual experience is bypassed. The life force is not given the opportunity to circulate within the body. When a man learns to experience his higher orgasmic nature and finds deeper fulfillment through a sexual encounter; there is usually a decrease in sexual obsession. I believe many men, especially those who frequent escorts with regularity are obsessed and missing out on true love and intimacy.
TANTRA INSPIRATION by Osho
When sex is just an unconscious, mechanical urge in you, it is wrong. Remember sex is not wrong, just the mechanicalness of it is wrong. If you can brings some light of intelligence into your sexuality, that light will transform it. It will not be sexuality anymore – it will be something totally different, so different that you do not have a word for it.
In the East we have a word for it – TANTRA. In the west, you don’t have a word for it. When sex becomes joined together, is yoked with intelligence, a totally new energy is created – that energy is called TANTRA.
Another Review: Eyes of Shakti
The review below is from a gentleman I'll call Vinny! I arrived at this nickname because we indulged in a large bottle of Cupcake Red Velevet wine during our erotic afternoon together. We all know how too much alcohol can effect us! I always remind my friends, that it really is all about the experience........the JOURNEY and not the DESTINATION!
Vinny is a beautiful man! I wish my writing skills would compare to his. Like some of the friends I see, I am their first indiscretion. They have longed for someone who can provide a softer, intimate, loving yet very erotic experience for them.
Many men comment about my eyes. This is one way I stay connected with you. It's a deep gaze that comes from within my soul. This may sound a little woowoo, but what happens, (and I hear this alot), as we breath and gaze at one another, we make a connection. We transform into the primordial male/female sexual energy. Even my face changes as I become "Shakti", a powerful female force of energy. I become in your eyes the sexual goddess you have always longed for! I will look different to every man. Two years ago, I would have read this, and thought, "what kind of drugs is this woman on?" hehe I actually learned about this in my studies abroad and I saw it happen first hand in Bali with one of my tantric lovers. Although there is a lot more to it, as tantra is a complex philosophy and a way of bringing divinty and spirituality into your everyday llife. You'll at least have an idea of how powerful your experiences can be with me!
More from Vinny below:
Thank you for a simply sublime experience yesterday afternoon. I was left in a twilight state of mind while a sensual stream coursed through my body leaving me tingling. For that all too brief interlude all my worldly concerns and dissipations were subsumed replaced by the rapture of your gaze. Our carefree frolicking was just the play to entice and whet my yearning and long suffering spirit.
Thank you for indulging my pecuiliarities. I could have gone on forever staring into your beautiful eyes that had a coercive power drawing me into your very soul. When I dim my vision to the apparent world I see your eyes, portals to the unseen world beyond. And, while I anticipate your reaction, I do lament not being able to fully fuse our bodies to complete dissolution into one another…..”in vino veritas”…..maybe for some, but for me, from this date forward, is better described as “in vino is a loss”; a softening, not of the spirit but of implementation.
Never one to lack for a cruel sense of irony, this very morning Mother Nature adorned me with an appendage befitting a prized stallion engorged with pride and pulsating with potential. How I ached to join with you in that moment to further our journey down the path to ecstatic bliss. Alas, I am left to tricks of the imagination to propel my lifeforce and unite our spirits.
TANTRA – Pompour
*See disclaimer below
It is likely you have never heard of this, but I have been practicing a technique with some of my tantra/guest/friends called Kabbasah or Kareeza. This is little or no movement during sex. Usually I am on top, known as cowgirl in the hobby language, and the only movement is with the slow internal movement of the vaginal muscles. This skill of using the vaginal muscles for pleasure is known as Pompour. It helps to practice this technique by using a Jade Egg. (You can do a search in my blog for the article on that subject).
In Pompour the lingam is fondled, caressed, gripped, massaged, milked and rippled as a whole or in sections. I haven’t quite mastered the sectional part!
During this period of lovemaking the man is totally relaxed. Neither the man nor woman moves their hips. All the action is internally. If it feels like he is losing his erection then she uses the pompour technique. If time is available, a minimum of 45-minutes should be given in order to feel the valley orgasm.
Woman with the right training can develop this art in amazing ways. Once you have been with a woman who knows how to do this, you will never forget the experience!
This technique was believed to have developed by the prostitutes of China, India and the Geishas of Japan. Very little of this lost ancient art is known. About the only time men will experience this is when a woman orgasm’s and involuntarily grips and a push-out occurs. As a man, you know how amazing this feels and this is just the beginning of what a woman can do with her vaginal muscles.
It’s best to try this by hugging, kissing and caressing one another first to build a circuit of sexual energy. Then have sex in your normal way in whatever turns you both on. Whenever you reach that peak of excitement, then stop and have no movement at all. Relax in a loving way and feel the energy spread. Only when the energy is throughout the body and you feel the erection is going to be lost does she use Pompour.
I know this may seem foreign to most of you reading this entry, but the idea is not really to orgasm as we know it. Enjoy the embrace and shared intimacy. You are waiting for the electricity between the male and female energies to build up. After long periods of no movement, it is common to experience involuntarily whole body jerks feeling like an electrical current flowing through your body creating orgasmic sensations. During non-movement bio electrical energy builds up from the mutual juices at a much higher level than normal. During a conventional orgasm the energy is built up quickly and released and the sensations are short lived. This involuntarily movement can happen several times throughout Kareeza or Kabbasah sex. You’ll experience a rush of energy shooting through your body and your muscles will involuntarily contract. Most often you will experience a subtle wave of energy and warmth flowing through you.
.If this is done for a long period of time you revitalize each other and become regenerated, full of energy, feel alive and this ecstasy can last for hours or even days!
Women love this type of lovemaking because they feel more of a connection with their partner. For men, there is no performance pressure. You both are nourished by one another’s energy and love.
Try Kareeza, non-movement sex with your partner or lover, or heck even with an escort. It might be a little too intimate for most escorts but perhaps you have a favorite who is willing to share this experience with you. Hint, hint. Have her practice her Pompour skills on your lingam. If she is new to this, give her some time to practice and build her muscles up to it.
*Disclaimer - If you would like to experience these sensations, you can always contact me too as your Tantra friend! As you know, I must say I cannot legally practice these things with you for money.
Excerpts for this article were taken from Sexual Secret for Men by Kerry and Diane Riley. I studied with Diane and Kerry for their Loveworks Program in Byron Bay, Australia and am now certified to teach this Tantra modality to couples and singles.
Date Without the Hassles…..an erotic story
As always, I must have a disclaimer on my blog. What I am about to write is pure fantasy and not to be misconstrued! No real names or profession is used in the following text and everything is a figment of my wild imagination.
The Date Without the Hassles in my favorite way to spend time with my guests! It affects every part of my being. I spend hours ahead of time preparing for the session and I get to be creative. Every session is unique depending on the desires of the guest and the time of day/evening we get started.
The Date Without the Hassles involves eroticism, adult fun, loads of intimacy with kissing and cuddling, a fantastic massage, and stimulating conversations. So it fulfills all my needs too. I always say I fall in love with every guest for the time they are here! The sensual healing satiates our minds, our body and soul.
For my most recent date, it was his birthday so I wanted to surprise him with a mini birthday cake and lots of appetizers. I knew he would be here for hours and he was coming from a log day of work and would be hungry. I didn’t make too much home made food, but I bought a lot of pretty things and re-packaged and re-plated everything so it was all nicely garnished with lots of color and flavor. He had an assortment to choose from like; mini turkey, gyro or salami sandwiches, pine-nut hummus, chicken salad, spinach & fiesta dips, chips and salsa, olives, assorted cheeses & crackers, blackberries, veggies, almonds and a raspberry cake. I also had a choice of Cab Sav or Sauvignon Blanc to drink.
This was his first time to ever do something like this so he was extremely nervous! He wrote me daily before the session just to make sure we were a good match. I’m very patient when gentlemen who are new and are kind to me. Yet I ask them to follow the rules of not asking too many details or specific info about the session.
I’ll call him Kerry from Los Lunas. He turned 38 and is going through a long separation. He is under a tremendous amount of emotional and physical stress and it showed in his body.
Upon arrival I opened the bottle of Cab Sav to calm his nerves. I was dressed in a nice black dress showing lots of cleavage. I think the over flowing of boobs tended to distract him a bit! We giggled and laughed like teenagers on the couch and I told him perhaps if we kissed that would calm him down! We kissed several times passionately on the couch and I do think it helped his nerves.
He requested we first start with the massage. But as soon as we got naked, it was obvious he was too aroused to enjoy the massage. So I said, “come on, we’re playing in my room”. I grabbed his hand and took him away. We peeled back the pillows and comforter and jumped in the bed to kiss, hug and cuddle. This is what a tantra experience is all about. Not getting in a rush for anything. Kerry was a very good kisser and such a sweet man! He likes to pleasure his women first, so he was good at DATY and the use of digits! I enjoyed his delicate touch and probing tongue! I even had him use my dual use G-Spot finder toy on me. It looks like an acrylic crank shaft with a beehive at the other end for anal probing.
Although not in Kerry’s case, I have to remind men that a woman can be pleasured in many ways. So if you ever worry about not getting hard, then use these other methods and not worry about it. The more you worry the worse it gets. Include the use of a toy to pleasure her too. Don’t have her get hooked on vibrators though as they can de-sensitize and it is hard to have an orgasm normally once this happens.
Kerry was initially worried about reaching an “O” too quickly. He said he always does. But by us taking our time, doing things slowly, me on top and squeezing my PC muscles tightly around his lingam, not being so goal oriented, and breathing……..Kerry was able to last a very long time and he satisfied me in every way! Thank you….yummy! Although not the focus, the way we finished was a first for him. I like surprising my guests! hehe
I even gave him homework to practice some techniques while masturbating! Being an extraordinary lover takes practice and determination, just like any other skill set.
We drank more wine and finally ate our appetizers after the playtime! Kerry was so sweet and helped clean the kitchen and put the left-overs away.
Finally it was time for the massage. I used plenty of stones and concentrated my efforts on healing his tight, wounded body and spirit. Men hold in so much emotion and stress and it shows in the body. If your body feels like a rock, it really is not a good thing! He had finally calmed down and said he was very relaxed. I gave him a full body massage with an option to play some more and enjoy another round. Or he could eat his cake? By then we had been together almost 4-hours. It was late and he had a long drive back home. We had the luscious raspberry cake and more wine, some nice kisses and he was on his way home! Kerry if you are readings this, thank you for a lovely date! May our paths cross again?
Does the Date Without the Hassles interest you? Is it difficult for you to within 5-mintues of meeting a stranger to get naked and fuck? Do you prefer more time, more intimacy and a connection? Do you like to have a nice ambiance?
The above date was 3.5-hours. I also offer a shorter, half dates with out the hassles if your timing or budget is a little tight!
Contact me at firstname.lastname@example.org to arrange a date!
Hope to meet you soon!