Thank you to those of you who took the time to respond to my blog. I appreciated and enjoyed each response.
zephyrinedevreux made one on 12/02/2011 @ 02:08 am
I am sorry, but I am laughing my butt off at Julia of Atlanta's comment. Truly funny, as I often wonder if all these Greek Goddesses realize that the quick extra cash they are making now will never cover the cost of the colostomy bag and adult diapers they will require later.Not to even mention how many ladies have colitis that are still allowing for anal, unbeknownst to their clients. Your sphincter muscle will never "snap" back to shape. Once its "all pooped out" so are you. LOL.
I am sorry if I am too forth coming, and I do understand that to each their own, but it is in my honest opinion that all of these women that now do everything under the sun are the reason for the total demise of the business.
It is like they give every single thing that is valuable about them, away to a stranger, for nothing more than money. It is like they hold nothing to themselves that is just for them, and while they may right now be laughing their ways to the bank, in the end, the price is always higher than what you are ever paid. That is just the simple truth. And I am not just referring to anal, or the physical, but I have seen so many get so swept up on the boards, that there is no other aspect to their lives except the boards, seeing clients, and then spending the money to show others that they are valuable. I actually had one lady recently tell me that she has burned all the other bridges in her life because she has finally arrived,she finally has it all, meanwhile she had no family or friends, except for her two teen age children, to spend Thanksgiving with..... but,no one besides those children, who love her, for her.
But I digress. To each their own. I am just glad that I won't be the one trying to order my adult diapers and colostomy bags online hoping that they are delivered in brown paper and not to the neighbors house. LOL, then everyone will know your shit. Literally.
Darla made one on 12/01/2011 @ 11:27 pm
I agree with you on this Lynn. I have done greek in my life and have enjoyed it a few times and sometimes it hurt like hell! Keep in mind the times that I have done it was with my husband, my daughters father and a couple other men who I was in a relationship with. I dont do it with clients and dont do it with a man unless, were in a serious relationship. My rear is a exist only!
Julia in Atlanta made one on 11/30/2011 @ 07:15 am
I am a big ole fag hag, always have been, always will be. I'll tell you what the long terms effects of anal sex are...a life time supply of adult diapers is required. I'll not gross anyone out by expounding on that, but let everyone ponder it and figure it out on their own. or not.
chief-redbeard made one on 11/29/2011 @ 04:22 am
While a very nice derriere, I mean VERY nice, I prefer the other side. Tried it a couple of times and while enjoyable, not worth the extra effort. It also makes me feel like I am using my partner. Despite it being a financial transaction, I prefer to have it a mutually enjoyable occasion.
Stick to your guns. If that is what the potential client is looking for, he can find it elsewhere. Unlike lawyers, there are somethings a provider will not do!
mrfisher made one on 11/28/2011 @ 11:42 am
I enjoy anal sex but only with providers who themselves enjoy it also.
It is not uncommon for them to suggest (and even insist) on it.
I see plenty of providers who shun Greek, and that is fine with me too.
Seems lately I have had a run on men asking if I offer Greek. When I tell them I do not, thatís the end of the conversation or email exchange. Apparently Iím swimming against the tide on this particular practice because it would appear from my research it has become increasingly more popular over the past ten years or so.
Unfortunately I wasnít able to find any studies dealing with the popularity of anal sex in the world of escorting. What I found dealt primarily with anal sex in marriages or long-term relationships. I did locate a couple of surveys that indicated the practice is more common among women in their early 20s. Incredibly enough, one study said that young people who want to maintain their virginity until marriage practice anal because they feel they retain their virginity by not having vaginal intercourse. The same seems to be true of oral sex. I find this utterly amazing!
As for me, Iíve done it in the past in a couple of long term relationships because I was with a man I trusted and cared about and those relationships were monogamous. Only once did I really enjoy it. Primarily I participated because my partner wanted to experiment.
For me personally, itís just not a practice I want to provide in my business for many reasons. If I love and trust my man, Iíll indulge and consider it an act of intimacy. As a provider, Iím not comfortable with back door entry just because he enjoys it. I believe that for many men itís a form of control over a woman and Iím not down with that.
I have queried several of my clients as to why some guys are so into the practice and one recurring theme seems to be because the anus is tighter than the vagina and they like the way it feels. Thanks but Iíve been doing my Kegel exercises for years and find they keep me pretty tight.
A 2004 study by the American Cancer Society showed that women practicing anal sex had more than twice the risk of developing anal cancer, possibly due to increased risk of exposure to the human papilloma virus. Obviously, anal sex with a condom cuts down on the risks involved but still . . . .
Maybe Iím just getting old, ha, ha! Anyway, I would love to hear from others as I try always to keep an open mind. Please feel free to comment.