Put them through the meat grinder
Since 2008, the recession has forced time wasters and stalkers to my cell phone. I don't mess around telling callers that men lie. I make them cowboy up. If they are vague about directions for a date --- they want to use GPS or I know they way --- I tell them they must write the directions down. Then I tell them to repeat the directions back. If they're not clear, it's clear they didn't listen well or a liar. WTF. This is business not my free phone sex line for jerk offs.
Today he got it. I gave the directions, he did not get them right. He wanted it right so I repeated. I made him call from the ATM telling me he was on his way.
If you are serious about a date you must go through the patty line for hamburgers. Do I care if it seems too much? No. I tell callers, I do have a life and my time is very valuable.
You don't want my 50 foot woman attacking you as you drive down the freeway do you? I think not!